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?????????? TO TOXIC BEHAVIOR: THE STEAMROLLER APPROACH

The opposite of "doing your own thing" is ? steamroller attitude toward needs, goals, or aspirations. People with this attitude ??????????????? only on getting the job ????????, regardless of its effect on their over-all well-being. T people who function ??????? steamrollers constrict themselves and their lives in order to accomplish their goals. The pain, emotional drain, and other poisonous effects to themselves ????? considered ??? largely irrelevant.
In most ?????? ? ???? there ?????? ???????? realistic solutions ? those involving ? compromise between impulsiveness and "grinding it out until it's ????????." ????????? To function effectively in response to on?s need invariably means that other needs must be at least temporarily suppressed. It is this reality which makes sense out of the word "work" ?????? ? necessary and nourishing function. Work implies an effort, an expenditure of energy which we ????? not entirely willing to make. Work includes energy directed toward suppressing the distractions of secondary needs so tha we ??? focus ?????? fully on our most ???????? need at the moment.
???????? effort is required when the work at hand strongly violates our present needs. In contrast, working on ? project we consider meaningful and interesting demands less effort. N people "work" in ways that ????? ??? harmonious ??????? possible with their ???????? flow of needs.
Warren was ? relentless grinder. Initially, in his career ?????? ? writer, ? ????????? would work only when ????????? felt his creative juices were flowing. On such occasions ? ????????? would write for hours, while at other ?????? ? ????????? would go for days without typing ? single word. Usually ? ????????? would work for ? few hours, then feel burned out and turn to other activities.
After his initial successes, the demand for his books increased greatly and his publisher was anxious for new manuscripts. Now Warren began to regiment himself. ? ????????? began to set up schedules and rigidly refused to allow himself to disrupt them. ? ????????? was determined to sit at the typewriter for so many hours each day whether ????????? wrote ? single word or not. His creativity dwindled, and his productivity along with it. Eventually - decided to give up his career ??????? an author. ? ????????? canceled his contracts with his publisher and began teaching. Subsequently, much to his surprise, ? ????????? again discovered the spontaneous flow of his creativity. ? ????????? realized that ????????? could work effectively only when ????????? needed to express himself and that ????????? could not ? ??????? himself to be creative.
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